Advice for the Newlyweds

My bridal shower was so fun great Friends and family thru it for me.........heres some advice that they gave to Chad and I for a happy life together, the food was amazing since it was a "Pampered Chef" party!!! Trudy i love you to peices and so excited your doing the food for my wedding......i got everything i wanted and more...over 200 in free hostess credit and almost everything from my wish list!!!! TY friends and family........Always laugh

• always respect
• always have patients
• dont be afraid to be yourself (dont worry im not he he)
• Notice the little things your spouse does for you
• never go to bed angry
• dont forget to kiss on the way out the door
• always be eachothers best friend
• affection
• always say sorry
• stick to the vows weve made
• always say"i love you"
• never go to bed angry
• have hot sex
• communication is the key to success
• say i love you before hanging up the phone
• dont raise your voices at eachother
• sex have it often
• remember the little things...keep dating
• always be honest with eachother
• date nights are important

i got lots more these are just a few........and a few pictures for you 2!

The crazy land of Craigslist

So Im looking thru craigslist to see if anyone has any great deals on patio furniture since the weather is so greta outside and were takin the cover off the BBQ and startin up the grill....and sitting outside enjoying the night with something to sit on would be splen~did~~~ i come accross someones add for botique Items so what do i do but click on it of course.....now remember this is craigs list and everyone has there diff opinions of what a BOTIQUE really is ha ha take a peak at this ladies cute stuff ha ha

Thank you for all your LOVE!!

I wanna thank you for these special Girls in my life with helping me with the process of the Wedding invitations........Amanda you are an amazing invitation maker.....and your mommy.....when you called me and told me you were gonna make them for me i was thinking WOW how so very nice that you care that much about me to help a sista out he he.......im in love with them they turned out super fantabulous ha ha and everyone that has seen them loves them 2 ..i loveyou girl and so super glad that you are one of me Bridesmaids.....kisses.......Ashley....you saved mommy a whole heck lots of time stuffing each envelope with all the goodies and i cant wait to have our mommy daughter dance.......i love our talks and love (and kinda scared he he) that you have crushes on boys already .....tho mrs. Young tells me all the sweet things you do in class to make everyone feel special and How you maintain your self an A+ grade average is Super duper rock star!!!! Your so beautiful and caring and a booger to your brother, ha ha but i was too.....and the thought of how your growing up so fast makes tears roll down my cheaks but I know your maturing and have the sweetest heart and i wouldnt change anything about you....Thank you for helping mommy...your the best....... And katers....for helping me tie each ribbon(i sware you tie a better ribbon) and stamp each reply card and envelope and for giving your shoulder when i need it the most.......i truly have the best friends EVER...Thank you!! Oh im so excited your able to be in the wedding now too.......it would nt be the same without you!!!

Birthday Bliss

So....yes i changed Our name .......because its like your sitting on my front porch(well dont really have a porch he he but we can pretend) and your looking in (like to my blog) because Im telling you stories about me and my family....

So bradleys bday is coming up oooh to quickly , didnt we just have christmas?? So I'm trying to brainstorm fun ideas for him.......since my kids arent too picky in what we do...he hasnt even mentioned what he even wants ha ha....just like with Santa.....we had fun guessing ha ha......so maybe a swim party at Grammy and Pop's house and Pop can heat the pool.....kids love swimming..Or maybe taking him to the toy store and letting him have a shopping spree and call that a party.....or bradley a friend and a movie.....im not big on bday party's ....Im not big on the stress or the mess .....i rather it be little and fun.....because who cares about the gifts anyways he has enough lego's built on his hutch do we really need more??? how about a fun resturant with a friend and your mommy and chad and sis biss and a couple friends and happy bday to you.......think that will work bradley Wayne??? Ill have a lil chat with him and let ya know~

6 Weeks left till the wedding........

i figured ifi put it down on paper and figure out what i still have to still get done i can begin my check list..........

• Try on wedding dress after its altered...so she can finish the bottom part of my dress
• order table linen's and chair covers
• put dj list together(baby i need your songs plz..)
• figure out whos doing the food....anyone have any sugestions????
• find shoes for dress
• find Choc fountain.... and order punch fountain
• get center peice vases from Walmart and rocks and lights.....
• look into ordering light fixtures for out side reception area.......i think thats it.... ha ha i better get to work....wedding invites go out today.......

The Amazing wedding invites

As i look back at the idea that Amanda came up with ,making our own bridal shower and wedding invites, i sit in awe in how cute they have turned out.......so im gonna give you a sneek peak at what they look like as you will be receiving them in the mail this week i promice...ha ha since the wedding is 6 weeks away.......They are done in envelope wit stamps and mailed!! woop!! now let the par~tay begin!!!

Pazookie Time

Its always fun to give the kis a little treat of fun.................so Ashley my 9 year old decides that shes gonna butter me up ...ya know sayin " mom your the nicest mom eva" and " mom let me do the dishes so you dont have 2" and " mom, do you think you can make us a pazookie tonight??? Ha ha theres the question i knew there was a motive to her sweetness.......so i begin to tell her, sure if you can get your chores done and take a shower and get ready for bed before 7 o' clock.....so suprizingly enough she did........haha............I think they enjoyed the treat!!!!!! Love you my lil Lovers!!! I hope you liked your dessert!! Love Mommy

Learning to love Un conditionally

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.
To “let go” is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences.
To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another; it’s to make the most of myself.
To “let go” is not to care for but to care about.
To “let go” is not to fix but to be supportive.
To “let go” is not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.
To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To “let go” is not to be protective it’s to permit another to face reality.
To “let go” is not to deny but to accept.
To “let go” is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.~author unknown
Un conditional love is unselfish~ If your gonna do something out of love than dont exspect anything in return!!!

For you Vince

Dearest Vince~

As i sit here thinking ...about how i will be your wife in just 8 short weeks , i start to feel tingles in my toes ,tickles in my nose and sweet thoughts in my head , about how so lucky i am to have you be mine forever......I heart you!!! All i ask from you is to keep your patients.....even when henry( 75 pound turtle) diggs up the back yard wires because shes trying to stay cool in the dirt or because she manages to get herself up on the deck and knock down the side gate because shes oh so curious.....or because you find rat turds in your bed from Marley having fun roaming thru our covers when you were at work....oops........sorry.....or because i decided to re arrange your whole closet from when you had it all to yourself and its so very hard to find those holy undies...i thru out.....oops did i just say that, or how i try to hide your sleeveless shirts....... or when you come home from a hard day at work and i have a list of honey Do's for you to do... please remmy to smile and dont sweat the small stuff......or when you know that Flo comes to visit every month pretty much around the same time to remember im gonna be her twin sister at first than get really emotional and all im looking for is you to hug and kiss and tell me your sorry you let her stay with us this month youll try harder next month........ do you think that you can manage that love???? Your already doing such a great job keeping up with our hectic life but you make me smile always guyblow he he(grandmas boy movie) .........Im a retard about you-best quote ever........I do I do I do .....................wanna spend the rest of my life with you........heart you for-ev-er!!

Love your sweetie~